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Originally Posted by stewie
for me i cant do that, and probably for a lot of others as well. when you see me in person, i can be very extroverted, but when it comes to lights out and in the sheets, i get shy...to many things run through my mind that i just cant control....things like "what if she doesn't have an orgasm", "what if she thinks i suck", "what if i cant last long enough for her" etc etc. and for those reasons i usually take the first several times slow and keep it more reserved.
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Then you need to work on this. Nobody wants to fuck a scared introverted dude. I am not saying you need to be a porn star, but your need to excrete confidence.
You only have one time to make a good impression. Fake it till you make it. Chicks want to fuck a MAN....not a shy scared boy.