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Breaking up and then getting back together, in my personal opinion, really does not work.
The percentage of successful relationships AFTER breaking up THEN getting back together, is very low.
Now, this is just an opinion, not a "proven fact".
What I would do, in your shoes, is that you should try to be more productive, break up with her, and use your free time to do things you REALLY want to do...
Like:
1- Improving your personal life
2- Getting a Masters degree or take more higher education degrees, etc.
3- Spend more time with your friends that you previously neglected.
4- After a few years, you'll move ahead in life, get a better girl, etc., etc.
What I really think though, is that you still have feelings for her, on the edge of maybe/maybe not, and you are stuck in the LIMBO/Twilight zone.
I really think that once a better girl comes along (like the one you mentioned you were interested in), you'll have no hesitation breaking up with your current one.
If her love for you is not strong enough, it will be the exact same thing with her. When a better man comes along, and she is able to get that "better" man, watch how she will flock to that guy.
It is a risk/reward thing, no?
It is just a simple truth about relationships.
People want to get better partners, but they also have to evaluate what they CAN get and then take that risk/jump.
So, you have to stick with it or risk it and live your life and date ANOTHER girl.
I am presuming that you are young, in the early to mid 20s? If so, you have a lot of time to think it through.
But, if you are in the 30s...... make your decision NOW.
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