[Ri2]

You can teach someone how to be good in bed...for you.
Everyone comes at different levels right? People like different things so you have to adjust to that. If she's shy, be supportive and encourage her to explore things she may not feel comfortable bringing up on her own. Pay attention to her reactions. You can teach her what you like without seeming like a dick.
Personally, sex is important for me...if you don't hit it right, chances are I'll get bored. My libido is high so if you can't keep up I get frustrated.

I've learned to pick up on what he likes and I can adapt. I'm pretty down so there's few things I will deny my man lol. I dunno, to me it's about being eager to please and following through.
I can be generous or a chintz depending on how he is with me and his attitude about it. Like for example, I hate being on top because it doesn't do anything for me. I like being dominated and being shown who the fuck the boss is, but I'll go on top and be into it if he initiates it right.

Sometimes I get embarrassed about what I like or how I act in bed but that's mostly to do with my personal insecurities. I'll overthink it sometimes like "was I too loud? was that too dramatic? did he think I was faking it? was it annoying?" but shit, sometimes you can't help it when he knows what he's doing.