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the FIRST question you have to ask " hey gf, how much are you going to chip in?"
if she can't take you seriously then you need to work that kink shit out first.
wedding would be like 20-30k, OH, if you want to invite all your high school buddies and all, sure.. then you're looking for a 40k wedding.
Oh, you want to live in a richmond oval new apartment... OH sureee. let's save up 100k down payment.
FIJI and Bora Bora for honey moon, sure, that'll cost 5k.
I ran throw those questions with a gf and then she realized 1) not only does she has to also save money, but 2) money don't come out from a money or my own ass.
reality hit pretty fast when they realize they also have to contribute too.
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