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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster
Unfortunately, she comes from a very traditional and religious family so we would no be able to move in together until we do get married. She is very respectful of her parents and has a very good relationship with them.
I've tried suggesting it numerous times but she knows her parents will not allow her to. She always says: "If we're going to get married in the future why not get married first?"
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See...its shit like this that annoys me. This isn't directed entirely towards you, but it is VERY important that you live together before you commit your LIFE to a person.
Marriage is a MUCH BIGGER commitment than living together and the fact that you (the universal you) need to seek approval from parents to do so shows that there level of maturity is not high enough to get married.
Like I said...you are 21. That is young. Why the rush? Saying you want get married so you can live together is a poor reason.