[miss_crayon]

Why do people make their life so complicated?!??!??!?!?

1) A is the equivalent to what you are to B. Backup Plan.

2) Like a lot of people have mentioned, B already explored the option of being your gf but has not because:
-2A) She probably has her own B in her life and is probably waiting for him to take her as his gf.
-2B) She keeps you for her own selfish insecurities whether it's wanting someone to want her or to fulfill her own loneliness
-2C) You are probably not her type..whether it's looks, personality, status etc. Not saying there IS something wrong with you but for her..maybe it's just something she doesnt want.

3) You only consider A because for once..there is a level of attraction (personality) you don't have with B. You obviously prefer B over A, so why don't you give the poor girl a break and just let her go. Unless she likes being your backup/B-equal.

4) People come and go in your life. People grow up, people change, people move on. B is probably one of those people that would probably be better off being cut from your life..but since you're so adamant on having her stay..then just prepare yourself for the long road of emotional drama.

Seriously, a person should not be feeling grief from someone they like. I know, it happens. Sometimes people just don't feel the same. I've been there, you've been there, we've all been there before. But as you grow older, you realize your time is worth much more than for some 2 second chick you're not gonna remember years from now.