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dinosaur · 06-06-2013, 07:37 PM

How old are you guys? Do you have thoughts about marrying her? Spending the rest of your life with her? Kids? BEFORE all this happened? Were you on that path?

If the answer is maybe\no\too early on\not there yet\etc....walk away and don't look back.

If the answer is yes and you think this is something you can work on and forgive, then it is up to you. You need to remember that when you forgive, you will need to forget! This is like when people say, "I'll forgive, but never forget". It ain't an option. To full move forward you need to go through a rough patch together...talk...learn to trust, etc but after that, you can never bring it up again as it will ALWAYS suck you back down to this level. No bringing it up during a fight...no throwing it in her face when your pissed....no questioning when she goes out. IF you can do that and IF you are willing to put A LOT of hard fucking work in, it COULD work.

If you can't.....DTMFA

One last thing to think about: People don't cheat when they have what they want at home. Something ain't right with your relationship.

06-06-2013, 07:37 PM	#10
dinosaur Banned By Establishment Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: bedroom Posts: 3,112 Thanked 3,492 Times in 1,176 Posts Failed 441 Times in 145 Posts	How old are you guys? Do you have thoughts about marrying her? Spending the rest of your life with her? Kids? BEFORE all this happened? Were you on that path? If the answer is maybe\no\too early on\not there yet\etc....walk away and don't look back. If the answer is yes and you think this is something you can work on and forgive, then it is up to you. You need to remember that when you forgive, you will need to forget! This is like when people say, "I'll forgive, but never forget". It ain't an option. To full move forward you need to go through a rough patch together...talk...learn to trust, etc but after that, you can never bring it up again as it will ALWAYS suck you back down to this level. No bringing it up during a fight...no throwing it in her face when your pissed....no questioning when she goes out. IF you can do that and IF you are willing to put A LOT of hard fucking work in, it COULD work. If you can't.....DTMFA One last thing to think about: People don't cheat when they have what they want at home. Something ain't right with your relationship.