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Ok I was working, thats why the replies I posted was messed up.
The story is that she went clubbing with a female friend, the female friend left her alone while she danced with this guy that the female friend is familiar with as clubbing acquaintances. In the club, the guy bought her two drinks. I asked her if she ever kept her eyes on the drinks. She said no. She, the female friend and the guy went back to the guy's apartment and met the guy's brother. The brother made my friend a whiskey coke with a little bit of Ketamine (Talked to a Dr. today at work in the hospital so he kinda narrowed it down to this) in it. She started getting tipsier and drunker and proceeded to sleep on the guy's room. That's when the insertion had happened. She puked after the 'said' insertion. Apparently the guy stopped when he realized she was still a bit conscious. I don't really want to explain any further than this because after that she was left alone to sleep until the morning.
I told her not to hang out with that female friend any more since she did a shitty job protecting her.
The reason she's delaying for this long and finally told me is because she is an international student and had lived a sheltered life at her home country. This boyfriend is her first boyfriend ever.
A lot of you guys are judging her of the fact that she slept with her boyfriend couple days after should know there are many possible reactions to rape, including people who avoid sexual encounters for years as well as those who obsessively seek them out. In this particular case, I'd guess that she wanted the comfort and normalcy of being close sexually with her boyfriend after a potentially traumatic event.
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