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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
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I've realized I've left out a bit that might be important. The past week or so, we've been a bit quiet (not kissing much except for small pecks for goodbyes or having sex because of that time of month). But at the same time I've also been busy with some work and she's been busy with midterm(s). I want to say it's me neglecting her (which I admit I've kinda been doing, she complained to the friend that I stopped hugging her and letting her "touch me"), but I guess that still doesn't make up for what she's done. Ugh.. why him?!
dbaz: She said those back when he said no, maybe to justify the rejection? I don't think they did anything when he came over that time. He came with a work partner to try to sign her up for Amway.
dino: We're in our early 20s, and yes, we've had those kind of talks. That last bit.. might be it.. her friend said she just might be lonely/neglected. Sigh.
We'll see how things go when she comes over tomorrow. If she still won't admit anything then it's a definite no. If she does, then we're going to have a long talk and if she wants to stay I'm going to ask for a lot of changes (and tell her to apologize to the dude's girlfriend, yeah).
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seriously, don't try to find reasons to blame yourself for what happened man. nothing you can tell yourself will ever justify what happened. if she was truly into you, head over heels, a week of busy-ness shouldn't made her go down that path.
the thing is, you are only in your early 20's. what happens when things get real, you're going to be a lot more busy, and maybe she will too.
confront her straight on and just tell her as it is. if there's no honesty and trust now, there won't be a good future.