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Originally Posted by LookitsMarkA
your current? thats why its "current" for a reason. u can do fresh stuff.
my gf is not my "current" ive been with her for 7 years and we have tried most of your "current" simple stuff.
picnics, beach? maybe at least 20 times.
there is nothing over planned for this relationship im in anymore. the more over planned it is the better.
after every date, she thinks about what we did for a whole week while at work.
it keeps us very happy, takes doubts or insecurities away and we look forward for next week's date.
for that reason we havent had a fight for at least 8 months.
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Originally Posted by Dinosaur
You mean, it distracts her.
You are literally saying your relationship is all smoke and mirrors.
What happens when life gets in the way and you go 4-5 weekends without this stuff?
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My relationship(s) are not structured upon elaborate events, because we simply enjoying spending time with one another and the setting or activity is nothing more than a backdrop for it. And therefore, we'd be quite happy to go to the beach ten, twenty, thirty times, or more (and have).