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Originally Posted by dinosaur
You mean, it distracts her.
You are literally saying your relationship is all smoke and mirrors.
What happens when life gets in the way and you go 4-5 weekends without this stuff?
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yeah i agree with u, there was a year worth that we didnt do anything fun, stayed at home, eat and get fat.
our relationship went down the drain. its not that we dont love each other but it was boring... =/
we didnt look forward to coming home, we looked forward to going out with our bros and girls.
ask your friend who is in a long term relationship,
things get boring... so if you dont make this overplanned things,
your just gonna end up at home cooking steak,pasta, ravioli , sushi ETC from t&t or superstore every freaking weekend watching netflix or icefilms getting fat. (this shit went on for us for like 2 years) or go picnic every weekend bringing what? oh right
food again.
dont get me wrong, we love cooking but to say
"if you love each other, nothing gets boring".............. bullshit
even getting laid was out of the question as "i dont deserve it anymore"
she said there was not feeling of infatuation to give it.
but after we put this every other week overplanned dates, we are more happy?
and we do something small every other week like go to the states.
the only days i dont get laid is when shes on mother nature. lol.
i dont know if u guys have gone through many phases of your own long term relationship. but this over planned thing.. personally saved us?
we are closer to each other, we work out together and happy to tell our friends that we did something awesome every other weekend,
so its not that we distract each other from the things we did..
we are creating more history together.
mindbomer everything becomes repetition after a while. beach 20 times? damn really? wheres your creativity? i think your
assuming she will still be happy.
do me a favor and if your planning to be with your "current" for a potential marriage, go talk to your friend who has been in a relationship for at least 5 years.
dinosaur cute avatar btw lol