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Originally Posted by iEatClams
by financing I mean it will be 1/3 us, 1/3 my parents, 1/3 her parents. but it's difficult as some parents will only lend money if they get certain things they want. I understand we will recover a lot of the costs from wedding gifts.
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It's your wedding, so I am not sure why you two expect your parents to pay for part of it. More importantly, you said in your opening post that you want to do western food instead of the traditional food that they will probably like better. Hey guess what, if both of your parents are covering part of the bill, they damn well better get a say in what happens in the wedding.
You want to call all the shots in your wedding? Better pay for it all by yourselves.