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Originally Posted by toyobaru
I've tried the online dating thing, and honestly found its a bit of a sham. Being in my early to mid 20's now I found that most females on the sites were still too busy with school, work, or partying. Its a window shopping approach to dating. Look at the profile, look at pics, if its not Ryan Gosling, ignore.
However few friends who are in their late 20's have had good luck with finding a significant other through online dating. I guess it has to do with when woman know times-a-ticking and know the milks gon' go bad. Maybe ill wait till then if I need some serious help.
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I gotta disagree.
im not saying your one of them, but the friends I know who have said that same response were the ones who didn't describe themselves enough, made themselves seem like a bore to be with, the ones who didn't have that kick to the way they sold themselves etc. profile pictures do have a HUGE impact though, if you've a picture of yourself holding a camera phone infront of a mirror...that's a no. if you've described yourself as a traveller, sports fan, a dancer, etc.. then put some pics up to back those statements up....show them you'd be fun to be with, they don't want to see a picture of you standing in a hallway at school smiling. times a tickin for women when theyre in their late 30's to early 40's and they just want to be with someone. but for the girls our age (20's) they've always got time and looks don't mean shit. ever see a fat guy with a smoking hot girl?? (just like penis size, it doesn't matter how small it is, its how you use it)
I had such an asshole profile that was degrading to women, but at the very bottom I basically said 'if you think this is serious...move on to the next person'. yet everyday i'd have emails saying how funny I am and we should meet up and go for coffee or have a beer at a pub. if you can make the girl laugh, that's all you need lol
even though I type with an 8th grade grammar on here, I can fucking sell myself
if your interested in trying again let me know and ill see if I can help you rewrite a profile, ive done it for a few others already lol