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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
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A lot of my friends talk about how they have one night stands sometimes and after going clubbing/bars, I think they might be lying. Im able to talk to girls in clubs/bars/parties but nothing really comes out of it even though i've tried getting dates.
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Interesting topic.
I'll speak (type) candidly.
In University, I loved going clubbing with Uni friends.
The goal wasn't really trying to get a ONS.
It was a mixture of meeting other people, socializing, "growing up", and yes, dancing to the music while buzzed up with a little alcohol (yes, I admit it was fun dancing to Darude's Sandstorm, the "Horny" song, Madonna's "Ray of light" or Will's "Getting Jiggy With it" or Lauryn Hill's "Doo Wop" or the perennial grinding 1998 song by Next "Too Close"... yes I'm reliving everything in my mind right now... okay back on topic)...
And, in the back of my mind, maybe... get a little lucky, but I realized that I didn't actually pro-actively try to pursue a ONS.
I was genuinely having fun dancing, getting buzzed with some alcohol, and meeting new people.
After a while, I guess the clubbing life went away, and I realized that there are a whole plethora of risks in one-night-stands.
As you stated before, you are virgin, and good for you.
You have to make your own decision to figure out if ONS is what you want or if a long-term relationship is what you want.
You mentioned you tried "getting dates" in clubs/bars.
The majority of my friends met their life-long partners NOT through clubbing, but by other means.
Only one of my friends met their life-long partners through clubbing.
In any case, party on and have fun.