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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
depends on who you ask dude.
depends on your circle and life style.
and also the area you live in.
yes one night stands are common. just because you don't experience it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
there are plenty of millionaires in the world, how many do u know? does it mean none of them exist?
there are people that do tons of drugs, if you don't know any it just means you're not in that "scene".
it's not so hard to believe that there are people so slick they can pick up girls more than half the times they go out.
especially if you look at it globally. don't look at just vancouver.
i also find the older you get, the more common it is. the easier it is. the less people care. it's just... having fun.
remember, repetition of any skill set makes you better. how often do you go hit on girls and go clubbing?
some people i know go clubbing 3-5 times a week, every fucking week. what are the chances they are better at the skill of picking up girls than someone that goes clubbing once a month or less?
i can guarantee if you're slick/smooth, got more money to blow than the average person, and you know how to socialize, your chances are exponentially higher than the guy standing next to you. you don't even have to be super good looking. being slick is also knowing how to dress and be charismatic.
if you go out and only hit on 10 girls in one night what are your chances?
I know guys that when they go out to pick up girls (not club... main purpose is to get laid), they'll go into clubs, hit on every girl, if they see or feel nothing, they leave RIGHT away, hit on every girl down the street, and hit up multiple bars/clubs. OF COURSE they're gonna get laid way more often.
most of all these guys have no fear and don't care how other's view them. they know what they want. and they won't let social stigmatization or fear stop them. they know what they want, they reach out and grab it.
they have way more exposure. it's a game. the more you play it, the better you get. that's all it is. like any other skill set in life. experience and repetition.
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I wouldn't really call that a skill then. You're specifically speaking of just guys when in turn there are girls that does the same. So what these guys you talk about do are go on a search for the opposite sex with the same intention.
If a chick have no intention of ONS, they will not stand at a bar waiting to get picked up for a ONS.
So if anyone here wants to join the circle of ONS, make sure you know what you're getting into. The person you have ONS with, have probably done it a hundred times.