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Originally Posted by mr_chin
I guess you can say it takes social skills, and anyone who can have a long conversation with someone will eventually find their target. Their intention takes the night away and they act/say everything out by nature.
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wat?
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You have to go out there with the real feel of wanting a ONS. If you're saying these guys can get ONS with any girls because they possess "this" skill, then I say that's pretty skilled. But this is not the case. The girl(s) must want to in the first place, be it just "wanting" to meet someone at a bar/club to really wanting a ONS. So is it really a skill trait or is it just filtering out girls who want and not want a ONS?
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you frame it as black and white as: girl wants one night stand vs girl does not want.
think of it rather as a spectrum. It is not discrete (either a 0 or 1) but rather a gradient of values (between 0 and 1)
so what it comes down to is how you can convert this number into you getting your dick wet
eg. picture a hooker being a 1. someone who just fought with their boyfriend and wants revenge a 0.5 . someone who wont touch you with a ten foot pole : 0
obviously it takes almost no effort for the 1. more skill for the 0.5.