[MindBomber]

Originally Posted by SoNaRWaVe

As cliche as this may sound, only time can heal you.

You've only been seeing this new wonderful girl of yours for only 1 month. Give it time. Let her grow onto you. It may not be apparent now, but when you give her a chance, she may give the whole world to you. Thoughts of the past, will pass. Its good to learn from the past, but embrace present and future and let the past go. Whats happened, has happened.

You said she's moved on, so I am guessing that there is no second chance with your ex. You need to accept that and just work towards the future. Maybe its still too soon for you to move on, and if so, just let your current girlfriend know and just go slow. And when you do feel more comfortable, open up to her. It sounds like you have another perfect opportunity with another girl, so don't let her be a rebound chick. Just be honest with her. I'm sure over time, you 2 would work out and hopefully, you'll move on from the past.

Great post.

I would add, a counseling/therapy session or two may be advisable. It would potentially prevent your thoughts from interfering with this current relationship developing; potentially money and time very well spent.