You sound too serious. It's a date, not brain surgery. You're supposed to have fun. If you're not having fun she probably isn't either. Loosen up. You don't need a "game plan". Just pick some activities and git 'er done.
Sorry, but a lot of your planned date sounds overplanned and boring.
Here's one thing that would be fun: Meadows corn maze + petting zoo. (There's also an entertainment book coupon if you have one)
Also, please don't tell her "No alcohol. This isn't a one night stand, this is for long term." That would be creepy.
