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Get to know each other more. I've learned from my experiences is that when it never is perfect in the date. She could feel tired or the mood changes and then she doesn't want to go to the movie anymore. Have some plans in mind on a whim and go with the flow. Dinner obviously, but ask her what she wants to do. Have some ideas and suggest them.
Movie, coffee, a walk, Q.E. Park. Let her choose if she doesn't, then do what YOU want.
I've learned the hard way (Multiple dates ended up not having a gf) that #1. Nothing goes to plan. #2. Don't stress about the plan so much, just have fun. Whatever happens happens--be fluid, adapt. #3 Don't do so many things at once. Keep it simple. If you're dinnering in downtown don't fly to Metrotown for a movie night and then Richmond for a walk.
My point is that dates are dates. The first couple are important, but don't stress yourself out too much and don't blow your cash too fast. Keep things real. Do things that are sustainable. If you don't impress her with your lifestyle then she can buzz off. Don't think about the date too much, and save yourself some time and money if things don't work out. Gas is expensive. <--- learned the hard way.
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