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Heres how i take things.
5 minutes. yes , 5 mins is all it takes to know if you want to continue to take her out. Why take her out to a movie, its so freakin dark and your not actually communicating!
Dinner sure, but make sure you have a pretty good attitude about paying for dinner. example : i've had friends go on first dates and go to the keg. Not to say the keg is a bad place, but he found out that she gets lazy about showering and sometimes skips a few days. Okay, so what now, your turned off , and you have to sit through a painfully long dinner, and you rant to your friends " she cost me 2 bills to find out that she was crazy, eff that. She didnt even put out."
lets say she comes to the date with a channel bag. Your like holy fuck , i won't be able to afford this bitch. now don't assume, its going to be hard, but tell her " its a pretty awesome bag" , and let her tell her story. If she tells you that she went to school for 8 years to be physiotherapist and she bought it with her first paycheck, then you know it aint so bad.
if i have learning anything in dating, short but sweet. Dessert places, Bright places, and a venue that holds a decent crowd. why you ask? whether it be cheese cake, vanilla cake, ice cream or even a coffee made in house, they're guilty pleasures.
small 1 hour date thats all you need.
make her want to see you one more time
but most important of all, remember to have fun. Brainstorming for a date can make you more nervous or uptight if plans go ape shit.
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