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NKC ONE · 09-17-2013, 10:10 PM

Alright, I think we're here to comment because we care about the well being of your friend. If he really loves her then there's really nothing you can do as a friend to stop him. Its a very risky thing to do and 9/10 times you will lose a friend. So with a gold digger in town, what are his options?

I believe two things will happen:
1) He can't afford her and she eventually leaves him. Most probable option and as a friend you will be there to pick up the piece and not be the I Told You So guy.

2) He strives hard to make money (to be able to afford her) and reaches a potential that he himself could not have reached without the stress/ambition to provide for his fiance/wife. Less likely but possible and remember no one else could have given him this boost.

OP, I know its hard to see a friend go thru something like this and not being able to help. But if this friend is important to you, you should just be there for him. It's pointless arguing who is right or wrong and this is ultimately his life and his consequences. You tried to be honest with him and he didn't listen, its not a sign of disrespect to you, its the power of love and the things that you don't see when they are together.

09-17-2013, 10:10 PM	#5
NKC ONE Everyone wants a piece of R S... Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Somewhere Posts: 362 Thanked 654 Times in 148 Posts Failed 52 Times in 17 Posts	Alright, I think we're here to comment because we care about the well being of your friend. If he really loves her then there's really nothing you can do as a friend to stop him. Its a very risky thing to do and 9/10 times you will lose a friend. So with a gold digger in town, what are his options? I believe two things will happen: 1) He can't afford her and she eventually leaves him. Most probable option and as a friend you will be there to pick up the piece and not be the I Told You So guy. 2) He strives hard to make money (to be able to afford her) and reaches a potential that he himself could not have reached without the stress/ambition to provide for his fiance/wife. Less likely but possible and remember no one else could have given him this boost. OP, I know its hard to see a friend go thru something like this and not being able to help. But if this friend is important to you, you should just be there for him. It's pointless arguing who is right or wrong and this is ultimately his life and his consequences. You tried to be honest with him and he didn't listen, its not a sign of disrespect to you, its the power of love and the things that you don't see when they are together. Last edited by NKC ONE; 09-17-2013 at 10:17 PM.