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Old 09-18-2013, 08:27 AM   #23
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Does she KNOW how much in debt your buddy is?

I can see how, if she is going to have a ring that she is keeping potentially forever, to pick something she likes.....

With that said, it's only a ring... There are girls out there that don't care about how much a ring is, and care about the person she is marrying. If a girl is "down to earth" they will know your financial situation and realize what is and isn't affordable.. BUT again, that 's if she knows your buddy is broke as a joke! If she doesn't, your buddy needs to tell her.

It all comes down to whether your buddy thinks he can "afford" her, especially in the long run. If it is something he isn't cool with, he should obviously think twice about getting married with an "expensive" gf.
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