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First thing that pops up in my head: "How much does your friend know her and vice versa?" Your friend should discuss his situation with his gf and take positive actions (such as planning for the future) together. He is 50K in the deep, so he should stop wasting money assuming things and discuss everything with her. If she is going to be his wife, she is going to spend her life with him and your friend own her some explanations.
She may return the ring for whatever her explanations are... but I think she have her reasons and your friend should think in her shoe. My gf and I shop for the engagement ring together. She wants the ring the way she want and I don;t want surprices (of getting he wrong thing). Its actually a good shopping experience and she can tell how serious the guy is.
Good Luck.
Last edited by Guinness; 09-25-2013 at 06:57 PM.
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