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Originally Posted by Akinari
As a matter of fact, that was one of the many options I brought up to her, because she just wasn't convinced that I actually like her for whatever reason, she insists that it's just a temporary impulsive thing, me liking her. To make matters worse, she can't even explain why she did what she did last week, pretty irresponsible and manipulating if you ask me...
And it's so ironic. When she was dating her ex, she would always approach me for help. I remember clearly once she was telling me how her ex was saying things like "I'm going to leave you, because what if I make you angry or hurt you and we break up? We can't even be friends anymore! So I'm just going to leave you now." And I clearly remember how upset she was about that when her ex told her that.
It's funny because that's pretty much what she told me yesterday when I confessed. She said, "what if I hurt you? I shouldn't go out with you because if I hurt you, we can't even be friends anymore." I replied, "you'll never know if you don't try, how can you say that? If everyone thought the same way as you, then there would be no relationship on earth." It's the exact same words I told her ex when she was going through the same problem.
Is this what bad relationship do to you when they end? You turn into a different person? You become a mirror of the person you despised?
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Sorry to hear what happened brah, getting played/friendzone definitely isn't fun. I'd say just avoid her from now on, go no contact. I know it seems hard, but just move on dude.. You'll eventually find someone else, and who knows, she might even rethink her decision after she sees how you have moved on. Don't be a dick either, just act like nothing happened, be friendly (like a 'Hi' or a 'Hello', if you have to) but not too friendly if you see her.
EDIT: Glad to hear you guys are friends again, I'd still keep away though to get rid of any "residual" feelings you may have; unless you're fine with being friends whilst having feelings. Good luck man