[meowjinboo]

First off serious discussion only.

This maybe one of these "uliq" type threads but I have a weird question.

I've met someone online a few years ago. Overtime we developed a relationship. Even though she lives quite far and I do plan on visiting her sometime in the near future, but I know in reality that unless I move to her country that it probably won't work.

The issue im having is she has replaced any type of real life communication ever since I moved because I don't know much people in Calgary. And it's getting to the point where I've become quite obsessive. For example I have difficulty acknowledging who's attractive when I go out to the bars here because to me she's the image of attraction in my head. Or when someone talks to me, my idea of a good personality is hers.


Don't get me wrong. She likes me, the feelings are there (until you meet in person hah) but in reality it isn't going to work out ever, and if it does it's going to be a major life change for me and I don't think that it's healthy for me at this point in my life to make changes.

I feel kinda dumb, but what can I change in my thought process to stop this pattern so I can actually meet girls here without having this anxious pining feeling of wanting to be with her.