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Originally Posted by meowjinboo
when she does things that she clearly doesn't enjoy to try to impress you.
For example I had a girl pick me up once listening to some EDM tracks I was obsessed with. I've also had girls take interests in Comics and show up wearing a comic book tshirt to my place.
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Agreed.
Not just to impress... once in a while, BUT...
Over the long-term, if she does things that she does not enjoy, over the long-term, with you, as in... daily... even though she does not enjoy it...
Now, that is fantastic.
For example, I love EDM, and I play it 95% of the time in the car when she is sitting on the passenger side.
She does not hate EDM, but she clearly does not like it.
To her, it's just a lot of bass, but to me, I can hear every nuance and little melodic difference in the different tracks.
Keep in mind I play it 95% of the time... and the other 5% is her music.
Of course, I do turn the bass to the lowest setting so that does help.
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Or, if there are tasks, over the long-term (I have to stress this) that I absolutely abhor doing... and she does those tasks, to create a synergy that is lasting.
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