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6793026 · 10-22-2013, 09:03 AM

i recently read this article and i loved it. You know what's romantic to a guy:

WHEN A GIRL KNOWS HER PLACE in the relationship.

I know about all the general BS about equality shit, but put that aside. We men know we will take care of the girl, be the driver in the car, help you kill the spider when needed, generally be the handy man around the house.

As a girlfriend, you know you'll be doing certain things, say IF I cooked, then you clean, if you did the laundry, I'll mow the lawn etc.

this is how our relationship was defined when we met, when we started to date, when we started to live together. THAT's romantic, knowing your place (bf and gf) in the relationship.

what makes it NOT romantic, is when you start holding out on sex on us because you THINK the card is in your hand. When you control us by saying "i don't feel like it" consistently etc. At the end, being the guy, we will put up with it, but you know what, once you cross the threshold, we peace out on you and that's it to the relationship cause tha'ts not what we negotiated on when we dated. so in the end, the one who's making new terms is usually the loser at the end.

10-22-2013, 09:03 AM	#32
6793026 RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001 Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: GTA, BC, HK Posts: 8,369 Thanked 2,931 Times in 1,280 Posts Failed 171 Times in 78 Posts	i recently read this article and i loved it. You know what's romantic to a guy: WHEN A GIRL KNOWS HER PLACE in the relationship. I know about all the general BS about equality shit, but put that aside. We men know we will take care of the girl, be the driver in the car, help you kill the spider when needed, generally be the handy man around the house. As a girlfriend, you know you'll be doing certain things, say IF I cooked, then you clean, if you did the laundry, I'll mow the lawn etc. this is how our relationship was defined when we met, when we started to date, when we started to live together. THAT's romantic, knowing your place (bf and gf) in the relationship. what makes it NOT romantic, is when you start holding out on sex on us because you THINK the card is in your hand. When you control us by saying "i don't feel like it" consistently etc. At the end, being the guy, we will put up with it, but you know what, once you cross the threshold, we peace out on you and that's it to the relationship cause tha'ts not what we negotiated on when we dated. so in the end, the one who's making new terms is usually the loser at the end.