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1. A female you get into a relationship with will have a bigger problem that you regularly visited a prostitute than the fact the you are a virgin.
2. There are more virgins out there than you think. You need to stop assuming this is a problem.
3. If girls don't like you, it is because you stink of desperation. Focus on having a relationship, not blowing your load in/on her.
4. Stop "saving" for a down payment and move out. You are 24 and should be starting your adult phase in life. We don't find owning a place attractive, we find living independent attractive. You should not be buying real estate in this market and for the foreseeable future anyways. Don't date a girl who judges attractiveness based on your networth.
5. Stop watching videos of 40 year olds losing their virginity....that shit is weird.
6. Start signing up for extracurricular activities....volleyball, dodgeball, canuck game watching parties, book clubs, collectors and enthusiasts, etc...whatever tickles your fancy. There is a group for everyone and these groups are welcoming...that is the point of them.
7. Sign up for a dating website....for DATING. Casual dating. Casual. Google it. Learn it. Be it. CASUAL DATING.
Finally...
8. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at any adult age. Do not let what you perceive as social norms to beat yourself up. Stop hiring prostitute, limit you masturbation, and stop thinking about it. 24 is YOUNG. Trust me. Sex can be fantastic, but it is not this "life changing" experience that you have built up in your head.
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