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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a post from an anonymous Revscene member. Please keep your responses civil and appropriate
Im turning 24 and have yet to have sex. I have had sexual encounters which included handjobs and oral about 15-20 times since I turned 18 with different girls. But they were all escorts I found off local escorting websites and I paid them around $100 each. To make it short, Im just wondering how old is too old to be a virgin? I know the politically correct answer is that it's never too old but Im talking from a real world point of view. I have seen some videos of men in their 30s and 40s that are virgins and they dont seem normal at all. I always thought I was a pretty regular guy but I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me that girls dont like. By the way, Im done university and work a job where I'm the only one in the office so I dont really have any friends at the moment. Would you guys say I should pay for sex when i hit 26? or 30? Unfortunately im still living with my parents so I can save up a downpayment so I will probably be in my 30s until Im remotely attractive to any girl but Im pretty sure if I told a girl I am a virgin right now, she would not want to do anything.
Any help is appreciated
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It seems you rather pay to satisfy your desire to play some games in hopes on getting some.
What you are feeling now so normal. As you get older, you start to worry about stuff like sex, relationship, your image, etc.
What you have to do is determine where you want to be in 10 years. Do you want a girlfriend? Or are you going to be a bachelor and continue paying for sex? Or maybe one night stands? Are you capable of keeping a relationship? (Seeing as you pay for sex, it tells me you're not really good at sharing your happiness, etc.)
Determination is your first priority. Determine who you are and what you want. If you're afraid of being a virgin at 26... 30, pay escorts and get it over with. To me, sex is sex. Fucking your girlfriend to de-virginize is the same as fucking anybody IMO.
Yes, I am single and no, I don't plan on being in a relationship any time soon.