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Old 10-25-2013, 12:46 PM   #13
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When we have conversation, she still initiates and keeps it going. If I reply neutrally without shooting back a question she'll fire one back my way. An update as far as today goes... we've essentially chatted the entire day - nonstop unless we were both busy (shes at work or something)...

For the time being, should I continue with conversation? Or stop replying at some point... and if I do stop replying and she messages again, what then? I understand she wants her space but she's clearly interested in keeping continually chatting.. If I oblige and stay on her mind, will this turn into a friendzone type thing? I feel like if I crack the question too often and see where she stands, it'll just push her away. She's not one for serious conversations unless she wants to have them.

I don't know if it's obvious but I want this to go somewhere. I'm willing to wait, but I want to make sure I take the proper steps.. I don't want her to forget about me. If conversation goes dry, should I check back in once in awhile, surprise her and say hello?
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