So I called Work Safe BC last week but haven't spoken to my case worker yet since she has been on vacation...
So I went back to work today and and of course sat down with the GM, Operations Manager and Supervisor about the whole thing....
So they wanted to know what was stressing me out and for how long (1- 1 1/2yrs now I told them) and they of course went over everything about being in such a relaxed environment at my work. They then said to me about me joking around and I bring it on my self a lot of the time. I told them I joke around about it because thats how I actually know how to deal with the jokes, I'm not lashing back out at another person I'm making fun of myself which I have always done as a kid.
Then of course I said about the Worksafe BC claim and my boss was like do you really want to do that? if you do all of the stuff you have done/said over the years will come out as well and everyone here will be embarrassed. Your dad will be embarrassed because of the response he gave my supervisor when she made the swallow comment to him (his exact response was "her mom didn't teach her to swallow") the customer he was with was prob on the ground laughing he thought it was so funny. As well I slapped her ass while dancing at a xmas party in front of her husband a couple years ago and that will come out as well. He said think very closely before you say something about the claim because because like I said everything will come out and all the parties will be embarrassed with this situation. He of course told me I'm starting with a clean slate now and everything that has happened will be forgot about and company policys are in place and I should of spoken to someone before doing this.
Isn't this stuff he's saying to me considered bullying at well trying to threaten me what will be said and happen??? He even said that I called a Fijian co-worker Nigger before which I would never fricken say that but he's joked around that I said that to him...
I'm just kind of at a loss for works right now and not sure what to say or what I should really do because I'm so embarrassed and ashamed already with what I did...
I've been ranting and hopefully what I said has even made sense right now.. I betcha he hasn't even thought about the email with the picture that has been passed around, could I be shooting myself in the head if I even follow through with Worksafe BC with shit I have said in the past that has bothered no one except give them laughs?
I'm posting this pic that was passed around to get your guys full input here which I really appreciate, please don't joke about it since honestly its nothing to joke about and value everyone.s support and opinion.