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Originally Posted by murd0c
So I’m kinda not really sure how to put this  …. I have a large group of friends and a number of older friends then myself (I’m 31) I have a friend that’s 51 who has 4 daughters and I kinda…. Well not kinda I do like his 22yr old daughter… She’s single wicked shit but just not sure at all how to approach this situation since I of course have never been in this predicament before. I’m not sure if the age difference would matter he is the same age difference with his GF but I’m just racking my brain big time since I really respect her father and his GF and of course I don’t want to disrespect/offend anyone here. I'm pretty sure his g/f knows I have feeling for her since she did make a passing comment the other week but I just kinda laughed and blew it off. Of course I would approach him if she feels the same way but in the mean time I’m just playing it cool and not sure how to proceed.
Your advice is much appreciated and if a certain someone I know see’s this keep it between us…. |
Age gap is not a problem. The problem is the age group. You're in the age of pursuing a career, probably wanting to get married, have kids, settle down. She's in her peak of education for a career, party, meet people, make new friends.
It's not impossible, but it's very hard. Unless you two have the same goals, and agree upon the same timeline, then it might work.
You still have to keep in mind that if you two are dating or are in relationship, it'll be so awkward when you bring her to meet your friends that is your age or she bring you to meet hers.
Good luck.