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But "change" as in making you 180 degrees from who you are just to suit their ideal would be where the line is drawn is it not?
Read the OP the 19 year old one crossed out the rest sounds sound? I do think being able to cook / make / buy at least 1 of your favorite dish is very important. Food feeds the soul as well...
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So let's deconstruct this, or as you put it, sound off:
I'd like to point out that being able to "cook/make/buy" food for you (or anyone else) is genderless.
Some of the most successful chefs out there are men.
Be that as it may, it is a wonderful perk to have your significant other take care of your nutritious needs.
Beyond this, change is personal. If someone wishes for you to change, their intentions need to be examined (suiting their ideals doesn't really cut it--unless their ideals match up with your personal aspirations--which I've found to be rarely the case).
If and when you feel that you wish to change too, then that's great. Not only is change personal, but the
will to change is in introspection. If you feel that someone is making you change, as opposed to yourself, then you have your answer: you're not going to change.