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Originally Posted by Tapioca
The whole idea that girls like "assholes" is oversimplification, IMHO. Women (and no, I don't mean the spoiled princesses who are girls) like guys who act and live as MEN, not assholes. Being a man is not about treating women badly; it's about respect - respect for yourself and for the woman you're dating, sleeping with, etc. Based on what you've written, you don't seem to have respect for yourself which is why women don't seem to be attracted to you.
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100% TRUE! I use to get that a lot from friends who would see me being an "asshole" but when I explained it to them they seemed to view it differently.
I will never allow someone to disrespect me, in any way. If I am you will most certainly hear about it.
It's about being confident in who you are and what you stand for.
I am not the best looking or most successful guy out there and I have been asked many times "how did YOU get someone like THAT?", the answer is being confident and respectful, even if that paints you as an "asshole" sometimes.