REVscene Automotive Forum - View Single Post - Single vs Being "Alone" / Rushed Relationship (MY STORY)(LONG READ)

Wykydtron · 12-20-2013, 09:43 AM

Goes to show that you have to be verbal, right away with your intentions. Let shit be known, ASAP. Avoid any prolonged BS confusion/friendzoning crap.

I did just that to this girl once. Met, went on a date, made my intentions 100% clear. She was cool with that, things went along, then BOOM "I'm just not in a place for a relationship right now." Told her that was fine, could have said something sooner instead of stringing me along, but thanked her for telling me, and I wished her all the best. She got confused and said we could still be friends.....nope. I don't want to just be friends with you at this point. It's an all or nothing deal, and she chose nothing. Can't cling onto girls in hopes that a situation will change. Go live your life. If they really want in, they'll call.

12-20-2013, 09:43 AM	#27
Wykydtron RS controls my life! Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Lower Mainland Posts: 782 Thanked 90 Times in 38 Posts Failed 12 Times in 5 Posts	Goes to show that you have to be verbal, right away with your intentions. Let shit be known, ASAP. Avoid any prolonged BS confusion/friendzoning crap. I did just that to this girl once. Met, went on a date, made my intentions 100% clear. She was cool with that, things went along, then BOOM "I'm just not in a place for a relationship right now." Told her that was fine, could have said something sooner instead of stringing me along, but thanked her for telling me, and I wished her all the best. She got confused and said we could still be friends.....nope. I don't want to just be friends with you at this point. It's an all or nothing deal, and she chose nothing. Can't cling onto girls in hopes that a situation will change. Go live your life. If they really want in, they'll call.