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Originally Posted by DanHibiki
I can't go to her EVERY time I'm horny. I'm sure as a guy you know sometimes u just need to rub one off and get it out of the way. She doesn't mind me masterbating just not to porn or anything besides her.
She doesn't like oral (bj's and me eating her out) because it's unhygienic and makes her feel like she's only servicing me.
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Well she doesn't want you watching porn but she doesn't want to step up every time you want some??...sounds to me like she needs to make up her mind and pick which one.
It has to work for BOTH of you, so if you guys cant come to a common ground on this then I would say you are in for bigger problems later on in the relationship.
As for not watching porn, that a personal thing and for me I don't. Mine takes care of all my needs in that department.
If she wants to supplement your porn with pics/videos than perhaps that is the middle ground you guys can work with.
On the BJ subject, why not take a shower together, that way everything is all fresh and clean, and you guys take turns. This would solve the hygiene issue as well as feeling like only one person is getting serviced......but in my books, sometimes only one person does get serviced and some other time it's the other persons turn.