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Originally Posted by Inaii
I don't understand how she feels low? Unless she's been called names and made to feel degraded in the past, it just doesn't make sense. Has she said WHY she feels that way?
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It makes sense because everyone is different.
She doesn't need to be called names to be uncomfortable or not like something. Maybe she does have low self esteem or maybe she compares herself or maybe it doesn't turn her on or maybe she doesn't agree with the exploitation of women in porn. Who knows, but just because YOU don't feel that way doesn't mean it "doesn't make sense".
To be honest, regardless if she explains WHY she feels this way, it isn't going to change that she DOES feel this way.
On the flip side, if the OP does enjoy porn, she really shouldn't dictate what he can and can't do. OP should continue to watch porn should he wish to, but certainly I wouldn't talk about it or make a big deal. IF she asks about it, change the subject. OP does not have to answer to her anymore than she has to answer to him.
I wouldn't suggest LYING...but what she doesn't know, won't hurt her.