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Originally Posted by PK-EK
Feeling stupid again today.
Last night she messaged me to hang out; the other guys came along too.
At first she sounded so eager for me to come out; she never organizes anything; so I was a bit excited.
On my way to our hang out she kept on messaging me: "text me when you park, I'm just parked across the street"
and I thought to myself maybe she wants to have a smoke in my car and I could use this opportunity to talk to her one on one. (not ready to ask her out yet)
I park my car, walk up to her car and shes not there, I text her. Shes already inside (no big deal, its cold out here in cow town!)
I see her and my best friend
Best friend is holding a Christmas bag for me.
Girl B and my best friend teamed up and got me a canvas print of my car and an expensive air freshener that I would never be willing to buy for myself (witch is amazing! and I love it)
But then it sank in.
and I thought to myself:
I didn't team up with anyone else to buy your present, I walked 4 different malls to find you the rite shoes, in the rite color and the rite size.
Feelings like I'm just a normal guy friend than anything else.
She hasn't shown me anything to make me special
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That is special enough. Again you don't know what she's thinking until you ask her. Girls aren't as transparent as guys are.
You need to stop over analyzing every situation to whether she likes you or not. I know it's hard as she's on your mind a lot of the time but it just creates self doubt in a situation where you don't need to doubt yourself.
What's stopping you? It seems to me that you are ready, but are just too anxious.
Just ask her out already! Don't wait for the perfect opportunity or moment because those just don't come around. A perfect moment is not something you can plan either. I'm rooting for you, as I'm sure most of everyone in here is.