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Old 12-23-2013, 08:31 PM   #18034
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Originally Posted by PK-EK View Post
As stupid and cliché as it sounds.
I don't want to loose her as a friend...
I don't want it to be awkward.
I dont want to risk what we already have.
I don't want to break up our awesome group.
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If she says yes, then yay you have your shot. I hope you're not planning on spilling your guts to her about all the feelings you have for her and all that stuff, in that situation it could be awkward if she says no. Just simply ask her out on a date. Just the two of you and nobody else.

If she doesn't feel that way about you, and she's as amazing as you say she is, she won't let it be awkward, she won't tell anyone else in your group. You may need some time apart from the group for yourself, but you will be welcome back, that's what friends are.

But if those are really your concerns then maybe look for love elsewhere, because it is always going to be your excuse for not asking her. Its better you do it sooner, while she is showing interest in you, rather than months later regretting it because someone else is in the picture and you lost your shot.

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