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Originally Posted by 320icar
This is an odd thread. OP i think I know exactly what you mean.
Ri2- if it's the middle of the day and your with your bf, and he chooses to watch porn like a prime time sitcom, that IS weird. The OP sounds more like myself; porn is no replacement for a woman, but if a job needs to get done, it is there to supplement a base instinctual need. It is not there to replace people or emotions. Just shallow physical gratification.
Ditto on the girls not doing oral comment. My girl takes pride in all her abilities, as do i. I've known a few girls in the past who don't watch pr0n (for whatever reason) and don't do bj's or anything. Sex is just there because you have to. Quick, simple, in and out missionary only stuff. That is NOT what builds a healthy relationship.
Props for OP's girl for stepping up with the offer of pictures.
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Yeah I guess frequency and timing do factor in.. in the situation I'm in hes only really watched it a couple times with me around. The first time I lost my shit but that's cuz it was the first time between us and I took it really personally, which I realize in hindsight was a complete overreaction on my part. The second time we were both kinda drunk/messed up and I didnt feel like fooling around and I expressed hesitation with hooking up so he went forward with it and I was ok because I wasnt in the mood anyway, I knew it would bother me a little bit so I made the choice not to look...kinda out of sight out of mind deal.
Women naturally have a hard time differentiating between pure physical need and emotions, that's why some may be offended with their guy watching porn. But we should lighten up, I mean we stare at handsome/muscley guys, maybe fantasize about them in our private moments, which is the same thing you guys do but the only difference is you guys are watching videos and we're making up the scenario is our head.