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Originally Posted by PK-EK
She Told me that my Type of girl was one that Washes the dishes, Speaks Cantonese and Pours tea in the correct order.
The thing is, I've seen her do all these things and more.
How she offered to wash the dishes at my Christmas Party, Poured tea for me first that Saturday we had dim sum. and Every time I send her a voice message; she always tries to reply with a bit of Cantonese.
but if this is the case; how come she told me about that guy she made out with on her trip?
I purposely told her my feelings right before her trip just so I would leave an impression.
Crazy me is saying she is testing me.
Realistic me is telling me that perhaps your slim chance with her is gone because she chose to tell you something like that.... you are not nothing but a mere friend...
I fucked up...
The night she told me about the making out with the stranger; I got myself piss drunk in my basement.
and after I let it all sink it.
I slowly started hitting on girls. it was the only way I knew how to cope with the pain.
Asking girls out; flirting with them; there were nothing more of a distraction.
then the naive me decided to tell her about how I have been asking all these girls out.
and thats how the conversion started; My Type of Girl.....
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I'm sorry bro, maybe now its time to cut your losses and call it quits. It's just one of those things where she's just not that into you. I honestly think that you didn't fuck up at all, and it has nothing to do with you personally. You did everything you could do.
There's no real reason why, and you've put yourself out there, you've left yourself vulnerable. She could have handled it more tactfully, fully knowing you had feelings for her yet she still decided to tell you about that guy she made out with. I'm sorry about this.
You just have to realize it shows a little bit of immaturity on her part, not being able to own up to it fully and tell you straight up about her feelings towards you when you had that talk with her.
Don't look back, look to the future. From everything we've learned about you these past couple months I think you're a great guy that can do wonders for a girl that will fully appreciate you. She will get jealous as you move forward and try to make herself more appealing to you, its just the nature of it, but you don't want to go through all this all over again.
Grab some beer with friends, separation is always good for a little while, if she's a true friend she will be able to put it all passed her and you should be able to do the same thing moving forward, after you've had your time to heal.
Genuine gentlemen like you are rare, treat yourself that way.