gf is going through difficult times with her friends' parents giving her mum shit about not "caring" enough and putting "limitations" on her and letting her do as she pleases i.e. having a boyfriend. Not only do they consistently keep asking her about our relationship together and what we've done, wanting to dig up details, they keep comparing her to their own sons and daughters. It's sad because there's nothing I can do about it and it's driving her crazy, and myself included. We're planning on going on a trip together this summer and once again her friends' parents are saying it'll be unsafe, and she should control her daughter. Not that her mum will actually listen to the bickering, but it's still annoying for her to have to deal with all this garbage from her friends' parents.
Jesus fuck mind your own business. Asian parents, is there really nothing better for you to do than comparing your sons and daughters from grades to dick/tit sizes?
Although I'm Asian, I'm glad my parents don't set/have never set any unreasonable limitations on what I can and cannot do. I've been brought up with a "common-sense first" and "you're responsible for your own actions" kind of way, and still live by that, my girlfriend as well, so it's quite agitating when people try and interfere with our relationship and apply pre-existing values regarding the "ideal" way to act on us.
