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Originally Posted by Lamboda
PK-EK I think one day you'll have an epiphany where you will see that vision before you. What I am talking about is that from all my experiences, I tried hard to get a girlfriend. It came to a point where I took a long hard look into my reflection and asked, is it me or them? Is there a problem with myself? What's stopping me from having a girlfriend? It is indeed my fault. I never developed myself. Would I have dated past me? No, I was way too clingy and emotional.
So here I am, developing myself. Trying to set goals and getting out more. I'm still not having much success with women. But from going on dates with other girls (even when I'm not interested) I learn more about myself and what I want.
And what you will come to understand in your own time--hopefully, is that it's actually very easy to get a girl who likes you. It truly is. I've experienced it once and I know many couples who got together once the feeling is mutual and it's quick.
My last girl I "dated" I went on 2 or 3 dates with her. It took so long to even schedule a date with her, that I knew that I was the one holding on. So I broke it off. She still has my number. Did she message me? No. I talked to her daily and I threw it away just like that. And you know what? I dodged a bullet. I won't waste my time on someone like that.
DL;DR It's easy to get into a relationship with someone who likes you, or going on dates with someone who has interest in you.
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If I could thank more than once I would.
It's so important for us guys to realize that not all girls will fall for us, and if we keep pushing forward and attempt to grab the attention of girls who are simply not into us, it's a complete waste of time and won't generate anything more than a friendship, if at all.
I speak from firsthand experience. If a girl is not interested, it's very obvious, and she'll more than likely politely turn down most, if not all of your advances.
Once a girl falls for you, it's very obvious, and that's your green light to take things to the next step.