Originally Posted by El Bastardo
The following is a submission by an anonymous Revscene member.
Hi All, so I have been dating my gf for about a year and half now, everything is going fine and smooth, however, as selfish as I can be, I cant seem to figure out a way to completely get over her past.
a bit of back story. When I first saw her it was on facebook, someone comment on her status and picture so it showed up on my feed. She used to be a party queen, and way before that she was a really good girl, only after been betrayed by her bf at that time, she chose to revenge by fucking someone from her fb. (wtf right?) and then it went downhill.. she started to party, clubbing, and basically drinking everyday, and during that period of time, she dated some unfaithful guys as well but they eventually either cheated or things just couldnt work. she lived with one of her ex, and when they broke up,her ex wouldnt move out, when she tries to force him to move out, he would beat her, so she just let him stayed at her condo (this is fucked too) which lead to her not wanting to stay home, so she went out to drink more and party more. At one point she even past out from drinking too much at the club, and apparently someone took advantage of her that night (this one really bugs me too).
So.. I understand if you love somebody, you have to accept their past, 99% of time I'm fine with everything about us, since after she met me, she honestly told me all these things just to make sure that I'm aware of who she was before, and then she proceeded to promise to be good, and so far, that promise has never been broken, no more drinking, no more partying, she has changed completely into a good girl. But once a while I just cant stop thinking how she slept with someone she barely knew just for revenge, how she lived with her ex even after break up, thinking the guy probably still fucks around, and how she got drunk at a night club so much she couldnt protect herself and let someone take advantage of her.
So how do you guys deal with this kind of stuff?
Serious advise please, as I'm trying really hard to get over all this.
Thanks in advance Revscene.
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