Your issue is that you didn't date enough/sleep with enough women before she came along. If you slept with women in a similar manner before you two started dating, it wouldn't be such an issue for you. Honestly, it would be pretty strange if she didn't have fun in her 20s - all women that are remotely attractive in their 20s will have men chasing them left and right.
No one is perfect; everyone has a past. Maybe she had some thoughts about you not being experienced enough for a long-term relationship. She seems to have moved on. You have to decide if you can be mature about it and move on too.
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So how do you guys deal with this kind of stuff?
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When I was younger and much more naive, I had the fortunate experience of dating an older woman. She revealed to me that she had slept with 20+ men from the time she became sexually active. It was a bit of an eye opener to me, but in the end, it made a lot of sense - she had an easy-going personality, she was easy on the eyes, and she had a great rack. In terms of how I dealt with it, I kept one thing in the back of mind: at the end of the day, she was only thinking about me and I was the only person she would sleep with. It becomes pretty simple when you see it through this lens.