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I agree with what most of the repliers are saying and Ice Boy's post is stating what I believe as well.

Another thing that may not have been mentioned is that she openly trusted you with this information. She could have chose to hide it, lie about it, tell you about it a few years from now (when you would be more invested in the relationship so it would be more devastating), or let you hear about it from others. But she decided to disclose this information to you, TRUSTING you not to hold it against her. I am pretty sure she did this because she really truly likes you, wants you to know about her past so that it will not interfere with your relationship in the near future.

I also believed she told you this so that if there are any problems YOU have with this, to save the both of you hardship and hurt later on if its a reason that you break up.

You had one year, relationship wise its not a long time, but its a long time to hold something like this to yourself.

Your two options as far as I see...

Accept her for who she is and trust her.

Leave the relationship because its eating you up inside. But don't leave it til later, do it now because its not fair to her.

If it was me, knowing what I've been through. I would be able to understand that people are who they are right now, because of where they have been. So it really wouldn't bother me. It should be comforting to know that she's lived that life, she's gotten it "out of her system", she's matured and is ready for a real relationship (with you).

Good Luck