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Old 03-12-2014, 08:32 PM   #24
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^ What nabs said.

If it is going to bother you, it's not going to change over night or over the year. A lot of people say they will try to accept a person's past, but later down the road in an argument, it will be brought up, and it will be the reason of a broken relationship/marriage. You really only have two options.

If you love her but can't accept her past, let her go and tell her it's because you love her and she deserve someone better.

If you love her and want to accept her past, do it out of love and not pity.
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