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Originally Posted by Hot Karl
this is a load of crap. it isn't all on you to blindly accept this girl and pretend like the past didn't happen.
i'm not saying you rag on her or bring up said past, but let's not all act like all that happened was she used to party.
the bigger problem is her reaction to serious shit. if anything serious happens to her, is her response to go on a binge and end up god knows where?
that isn't worrying about her past, that's worrying about her future.
**flip the script. OP gets blackout drunk and smacks up his bitch numerous times. but that was his past and let's all forgive him.
that's fine and dandy assuming the person isn't going to relapse. if so, then OP will be holding the bag next time some shit goes down.
***this isn't about her sleeping around in the past. read the fucking post. after drama in her life, she went on an epic bender which created even worse drama.
you are essentially dealing with a recovering alcoholic or drug user. it's all happy days until they relapse into hell. that's what the OP is living with and will need YEARS of stability before that thought exits his mind.
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You can't compare people who resort to domestic violence as a response to grief vs, people who overdo trying to have fun as a response instead.
Yes, let's flip the script but lets ask how many guys in RS, post-break up went on a party/casual sex binge instead.