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Do your own thing, get your life and health together and just have fun. Personally, I found myself a hobby (cycling) that I am completely focused on, got fit and enjoy the group of people I hang out with and ride with. If cycling is not your thing, just immerse yourself in an activity you enjoy that gets you moving. It will help you forget for as long as you do that activity (as long as it's not drugs or doing yourself bodily harm). Once I got my shit together, I felt awesome, not just for being able to live independently again but just being happier.
Then an ex from 3-years back texts me telling me how sorry she was for treating me like shit after I help her with all her shit and how she grew up over the time we were apart and she appreciates and see what I did for her and she'll always be there for me and she'll always love me. Why? Because she saw a picture from a mutual friend on FB having a good time(I actually deactivated my FB and did not know my friend even posted a pic).
What a shit load of fuck, sorry, too little, too late, already with someone else doing other things we both enjoy.
No joke. The moment you become clingy and the more you have to convince her, the more she will hate you. The more you do for someone (gender neutral) the more they take you for granted and treat you like shit. The more detached you get to someone, the more they want your attention. Give her space and find yourself another person and just focus on you and your happiness.
Here's my rule of thumb for those you want to be with: The Heart grows fonder with distance.
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