[Ulic Qel-Droma]

i think you guys (and westerners in general) have a screwed up perception of sex and intimacy. it's not some rare exotic shit that's put on a pedestal.

That and there's a very obvious divide between the possessive and the non possessive here. If one isn't so possessive, they won't care about those sex things.

it's the same thing for those guy's that get hella angry or upset or jealous when they see other guys checking their girls out or flirting with the girls they're with.

this is just another level deeper.

who cares if she's fucked 20 guys. that's not even that much.

if you see a chick you like, you'd bone her if she wanted to bone you too.
if she sees a dude she likes, she's gonna bone him if he wants to bone her too.

that's all there is to it.

your values are skewed to the point where it is interfering with your life and making you upset over nothing.

all you always have to remember is, if something is bothering you... it's not the universe that's out to get you. it's you that's getting you. you're creating your own problems.
stop being a little kid and wanting to bend values to what you expect them to be. you don't see scientists trying to bed the laws of physics to suit their expectations (the apple always drops down, no matter what, doesn't matter what you expect or want to happen).
the same goes for everything else in life.


don't try to change the world, cuz you will fail. instead, change yourself. and the world will change according to your perspective.


"You do not see the world as it is. You see the world as you are.”